I picked up this novel on a day trip to Madison. I love the bookstores there! But we really go to visit the Mustard Museum in Mt. Horeb, the Penzy’s spice store in Madtown, and then the cheese store in Cuba City – we make this trek once or twice a year. While there we always spend some time in the bookstores. This became one of trips when our daughter was in grad school at the University of Wisconsin.
Gretchen Olson has written a book about eleven year old Hope who is bullied. This bully is not the typical bully we find in novels about bullying and middle school kids; this bully is her mother. Hope says the worst name in the world is STUPID – it seems that no matter how hard she tries to please her mother, her mom just thinks she is stupid and tells her so. This name is certainly not the worst – she is verbally abusive all the time.
Hope tries to cope by creating a point system that in her mind after so many points her mom will stop saying things or glaring at her. Her friendship with two women who run a used clothing store helps her survive. Finally, a school counselor also steps in to try to help Hope.
I think reading this book reminds all of us how hurtful words can be – it really isn’t true that “sticks and stones may break my bones, but words can never hurt me.”